47. WILL YOU PARTAKE IN SEXUAL ACTIVITIES? - Jack’s Life Lessons For Teenagers #JackLookman #teenageinspiration #EmpowermentandInspiration


Making the option to engage in sexual activity or not, is a crucial life lesson for teenagers. This is a very personal choice that needs to be carefully thought out, respected for both the self and other person, and mindful of the possible outcomes.

First and foremost, it is  critical to comprehend the psychological and physiological effects of having sex. Take time to educate yourself about consent, sexually transmitted infections, and contraception. You can safeguard your health and wellbeing and make responsible decisions by being aware of these variables.

When selecting whether or not to engage in sexual activity, it is crucial to respect your limits and yourself. Follow your gut and only partake in sexual activity when you’re ready and at ease. Your body, your choice. Resist peer pressure and societal pressure.

In a same vein, it is essential to respect others’ personal space and independence. Before having any sexual action, always have passionate and explicit consent. Consent is revocable at any moment and needs to be passionate, freely offered, and informed. Respect for one another and communication are essential elements of a good sexual partnership.

Taking accountability for your sexual well-being is an additional crucial factor to contemplate. Prioritize your sexual health, use condoms or other forms of contraception to prevent unwanted pregnancies and STIs, and get regular STI screenings.

It is  also critical to comprehend the emotional effects of sexual activity. Since having sex may be a very personal and vulnerable event, you should think about how it might impact your relationships and feelings. Be ready for the possible emotional fallout and, if necessary, seek out help from dependable family members, friends, or specialists.

Finally, keep in mind that abstinence is a legitimate option. Sexual activity is not required of you if you are not ready or comfortable doing it. Your sexual experiences—or lack thereof—do not define your value as a person or your worth.

From a spiritual or religious perspective, the expectation is to abstain from sexual activities until you become married. This activity is expected between legally married heterosexual couples. The terminology used for unreligious sex is fornication or adultery. In some spiritual dispensations, this is regarded as a major sin. There are possible repercussions, such as: pregnancy, abortion, destroyed fertility, moral decadence, illegitimate children, affected family dynamics, unwanted children,  educational and life derailment— especially for the girl, etc.

One of the ways that this is managed, is the separation of both sexes, as much as possible, in social and other dispensations; and avoiding possibilities or temptations of intimacy, restricted stares at opposite sexes, minimized interactions with opposite sexes, minimized or avoided sexual pictures and content, control of Social media content, punishment for breaching the rules, etc . 

In summary, the choice to engage in sexual activity is a private one that needs to be carefully thought through, respected, and responsibly made. Take care of your sexual health, value consent and communication, educate yourself, respect others and yourself, and never forget that abstinence is always a choice. Teens can navigate their sexual lives in a way that is consistent with their values and encourages healthy relationships by addressing this decision with maturity and respect.

Thank you very much for your time. 

This is Jack Lookman signing off. Ire o (I wish you blessings)

Ire kabiti (I wish you loads of blessings).

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